I wanted to share a quick update on our adoption progress! We are happy to say that we have reached the point where we are completely qualified to adopt. All the paperwork has gone through, we've received a copy of our finished home study, and we've started applying for birthmother situations. So far we've tried to match with four birthmothers. We haven't been selected yet, but are hopeful that we will be matched soon. It is pretty much out of our hands at this point!
Now that we've kind of reached a waiting point in the process, we decided to go ahead and put some effort into some of the things we can control...like nursery furniture! We emptied out the room we'll be using as our nursery, and plan to paint it soon. We've purchased a crib, dresser, and changing table too. We were wary about "jinxing" ourselves at first, but decided that was silly. And with the sometimes alarmingly close due dates that some of the birthmothers have, we figured we should be prepared at least at a basic level for the potential of a sudden arrival!
I can't promise that our nursery will end up anywhere near as cute as this one, that my friend Amelia set up. But I'm hopeful that our gender-neutral forest theme will be somewhat cute. My wife is not the decorator of the house, which leaves the task to me...so we'll see!
And thank you to all of my readers and to anyone who has ever purchased anything from my store. Every cent of my earnings have gone towards this adoption, and as of right now my earnings have managed to cover about 70% of the total estimated cost! My wife and I literally wouldn't even have had the opportunity to adopt with TpT.
Thanks for the update NIck. Keep your chin up, I know you will be getting that phone call soon~ You and the Mrs. are wonderful people and will make amazing parents!
ReplyDeleteHappy Sunday my friend!
Michele
Coffee Cups and Lesson Plans
Love reading your updates, Nick...and you and your wife are always in my prayers! You guys are going to be amazing parents! Can't wait to see the nursery when it is complete!
ReplyDeleteKatie
Mind Sparks
So glad for your progress! My wife and I are about to start the same process...it seems really scary, so glad to see someone who is going through the process. :-)
ReplyDeletePraying and crossing my fingers for your family.
Ryan
The Disneyfied Teacher
The perfect match will come, and you guys will be great parents :)
ReplyDeleteCongratulations on qualifying to process an adoption! At this point, your patience will be tested the most, but I'm sure everything will fall perfectly into place soon. Thanks for the update, Nick! All the best to you! :)
ReplyDeleteCarlos Strey @ The Bridge Across